Coffee Dates ♡

Naledi Ntuli
Dec 5, 2021
2 min read

In Summer? Yes!

Winter days aren't the only ones deserving of coffee and cuddles - especially not with cosy rainy days in summer.

If you hit the cafe by yourself for a solo date you can spend some time on Pinterest refining your Vision Board for 2022. Or you can do some journaling and check in with yourself. Solo dates are one of the sweetest moments one shows themselves compassion.

Coffee dating a friend, sibling or partner is just as sweet. You can enjoy each other's company while catching up, however if you're meeting a friend you have not seen in a while this date might turn to brunch!

I'm quite sentimental and find cute dates like these to be the best to strengthen my relationships, simply by communicating.

Ask questions that will give you an idea what your friend/partner would like, such as "what can I do in our relationship to make you feel heard and seen?" Or, "is there anything that happened recently that hurt you that we never got around to?" Even better, show your gratitude for their presence in your life.

There is nothing to feel uneasy about when having such conversations, they are intimate and important and whatever initial awkwardness will not last for long.

Coffee fits don't always have to be heavy and wintry, except the basic sweatsuit you can rock these effortlessly and look gorgeous.